The Ten Most Common Reasons Love Spells Don’t Work


Aside from requests for wealth, prosperity, and debt relief, the most common spells people request are love spells. Every day I received questions from clients and potential customers about how to win back a lover, how to keep a partner faithful, and how to put the passion back into a relationship.

As human beings, it is normal to want to be loved. In fact, next to food and shelter, the need for love and companionship is essential for healthy human psychological and emotional development. It is not surprising that people are willing to do anything and pay anything to gain the love of someone special.

But do love spells work? Well, yes and no. It depends on a number of factors. A reputable spellcaster should explain to you how their particular magick system works and give you instructions for what you should and shouldn’t do in order to manipulate energy in your favor. However, if you ask someone to cast a love spell for you and they guarantee it will work, run the other way. There is no such thing as 100% effective magick, and I am about to tell you why.

Many people do not understand that magick is a cocreative process which necessitates that you work in partnership with the Universe in order to ensure success. This is why I never guarantee any Voodoo love spells I perform. I cannot control what you do or don’t do. The only control I have is over me and the authentic ritual I perform. How you think, feel, believe, and behave is up to you; yet, these dynamics have everything to do with the success or failure of any Voodoo love spell.

To help you understand why love spells and Voodoo love spells frequently fail, I have come up with a list of the top ten reasons love spells don't work. These reasons apply whether you cast the spell yourself or someone else does the work for you.

1. You have unrealistic expectations. If you live in Picayune, Mississippi and you are casting a spell to make Criss Angel love you, well, your chances of success are pretty slim…especially if you have never even met the guy! There needs to be a strong connection to the person to begin with, and a basis from which love can be nurtured and sparked. Furthermore, love spells do not work overnight. Magick is often a process that involves removing obstacles and clearing unwanted influences, and realigning and maneuvering energies to affect change for the best possible result.

2. Magick is not guaranteed. Just as prayers to the creator may go seemingly unanswered, there may be a reason that a spell does not work. It may be that the Universe has different plans for you. This reason is very hard for some people to accept.

3. You are taking shortcuts. To be a powerful and effective conjurer, you must have the right tools, focus, and mindset. Power results from the use of traditional ingredients such as roots, oils, and powders, from the use of traditional tools such candles and a knife, from performing powerful ritual techniques such as those passed down in the Voodoo tradition for thousands of years, and from having a traditional altar or work space.

4. You doubt the power of magick and you do not “believe” in your own personal power. Magick systems are based on faith. If you do not believe in the possibility of shifting energy and in your ability to attract certain energy your way, and if you do not believe in the power of the Spirits that you may be asking for a favor, you are wasting your time and money.

5. You are stalking and/or harassing your desired mate. Do not threaten or terrorize, attempt to coerce or intimidate, or start calling or emailing your desired lover. To do so will reverse any spell performed on your behalf. You need to create and allow space for the correct energies to align and work in your favor.

6. You are being scammed. Bar none, this is the most common reason love spells do not work. You have paid someone to perform a spell and they never do what they were paid to do, nor did they ever intend to do what they were paid to do. Unfortunately, there are many people out there who are just waiting to prey on your emotional grief and desperation. An authentic practitioner will have a conversation with you about your situation and assess your expectations and the likelihood of success. They will give you an honest appraisal of your request and will not take your money if there is little chance of the spell working.

7. You do not provide complete and accurate information to the spellcaster. An authentic practitioner will petition your requests in a formal ritual on your behalf based upon the information you provide. If you do not provide the correct information, or if you lie about the situation and expect the practitioner to “magically” make your ex fall back in love with you (even though you were abusive, for example), the spell will not work and may in fact, backfire. The Spirits are not stupid and do not take kindly to attempts to fraud or manipulate them. Voodoo Spirits are exceptionally powerful and keen to such shenanigans, and you will have no one to blame except yourself if you end up with the exact opposite of what you wanted.

8. You are obsessing over your love spell or Voodoo love spell. Obsession is fueled by desperation. These feelings attract negativity and will weaken any spell being performed.

9. You fail to address any underlying obstacles or issues. Many times there are unwanted influences creating an obstacle to the union or reunion of two people. These obstacles can be external, such as other people, or internal, such as a lack of confidence or self-worth. A cleansing of some sort should always be performed to clear the path for the Divine energies to do their work.

10. You talk about the spellwork to others. Under no circumstance should you discuss your spellwork with anyone under any conditions. To do so will weaken the power of the spell and will in essence, create an obstacle that wasn’t there to begin with.

Remember that Voodooists, rootworkers, and spellcasters of all kinds are not miracle workers – they are not deities. Practitioners vary in skill and expertise and even the most skilled and experienced spellcasters will not have a 100% success rate. Jimmy Page is considered to be one of the best guitar players to have ever lived; yet, even he hits wrong notes sometimes. In fact, he hits wrong notes a lot of the time. But that doesn’t make him any less skilled of a guitar player and song writer, nor has that been an obstacle to his extreme and legendary success.

So if you want your love spell to be successful, make sure you address the top ten reasons that they commonly fail and behave and believe accordingly. Have respect for the Spirits that are willing and able to help, and be patient and accept the space between you and your desired lover for now in order to ensure the best possible outcome.

The photo is an image of Mater Dolorosa (Our Lady of Sorrows) who is likened to Erzulie Freda in the Voodoo tradition. Get Our Lady of Sorrows as an altar poster from the Voodoo Butik.

Our Lady of Sorrows print
Our Lady of Sorrows

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45 comments:

  1. Wonderful! Such pratical, useful advice. I pratice magic for me and my young adult daughter,on my own, and it is so helpful to have a resource to turn to when she asks me "why didn't it work?" I'm so impressed I'm actually going to buy some stuff from you! Please accept my gratitude, and felicitations. I look foreward to reading more of your advice, opinions, and wisdom in the future. Keep it up! Mahalo, Ondeal

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  2. Excellent article, I usually dont post to anything but I feel compelled to compliment you on such a well-thought out and written article. Thank You.

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  3. I wanted to thank you for being so open and real about the process of spell casting and voodoo work. I have been able to cast for myself only a few things. Certain situations that I felt too emotionally involved in, I went to someone else. unfortunately these spells never worked. Why I was not sure of at the time.
    I know now why that is and this article seriously opened my eyes. Thanks again.

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  4. All I can say is WOW! Awesome article
    THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH for your honesty and
    wonderful advice. I was doing 4 out of the 10 I could see the omens working but I messed them up now I see why. I'm starting over this time
    I have the correct knowledge and know how
    Thanks again.

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  6. If I did some of the things named above such as # 8 and #10 can I continue with the work after I've stopped doing #8 and #10 or do I have to start all over?

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  7. This article is excellent! I had a client who was kind of difficult to work with and we tried explaining these very things to her. It is so very important to exercise discipline, self-control and have realistic expectations!

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  8. I am linking this to facebook! I think it will be great for my friends' to read!

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  9. I agree and also think that any love spell never work until these 10 points are kept in mind. If you note these guidelines in mind while doing a magic spell, you will soon get your love back.

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  10. I think it's also important to realize that these guidelines don't fall specifically to love spells and can be applied with most magical workings, regardless of the goal.

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  12. thank you I will call you soon,

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  13. This is good information thanks

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  14. Thanks for sharing this love spell blog. many peoples use it for getting success in their life and for their future wok planing. it is very heedful for us . please keep posting.

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  16. THANK YOU! I did a candle spell and it didn't work. I now know WHY! I broke rules # 5&8 while doing candle work. I personally know a caster and I purchase all of my products from her. Her candles are hand made and are very powerful. You mentioned that the work will reverse. By this do you mean it reversed on me or the intended "action" reversed? In other words, it didn't reverse on me, it just didn't work at all. I plan to start another spell (not a candle spell). Will this one work even though I flopped on the others if I stick to the rules?

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  17. Wonderful and insightful blog! Love Spells, luck spells, and cleansing spells all have a purpose and can be used in our daily lives. This blog teaches the everyday person how a little magick can help things along the way! Great work!

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  18. Thank you so much Saint Expedite! You are truly awesome!

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  19. I have contacted my target a few times. That's probably one reason why he's never pursued me on his own. One good manifestation is that he ended his relationship with another woman who he claimed he wasn't serious about.

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    1. same here! but has ANYTHING ever worked for ANYONE...

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  21. I have casted several love spells and get my ex back and paid several casters to do the work for me yet none have work. Now I fully understand why...I did few of the things you metioned above. I now intend to do another spell work and will ensure that I follow all of the above 10 points. Would this change the current situation now? My ex had a complete changed of heart where she no longer wishes to talk nor see me. Does this mean that the spells done before backfired on me? Is there any chance and hope of making things better?

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    1. Same thing happened to me. Did u sort out everything?

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    2. Did u sort out everything?

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  23. Bellas After being in relationship with Adams for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by reffering him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email:
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  24. So, you gave all possible reasons to excuse the failure of love spells and spells in general, because they never work. If they do, it's in fact coincidence. You and the Church are alike, if it doesn't work ''it's because you don't have enough faith''. What about a youth that trully believe and still nothing happens ? You and the Church have the answer for this too : '' the universe has another plan for you '' ! No more things to ask, if the univers has another plan, that's it !

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  25. thanks for posting this blog. its really very helpful for us.
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  26. Good article. Spells do not work every time, for many reasons, but mostly because, IMO, people are not honest about what thy want, why, and what happened during a break-up where love is concerned. This is the same as prayers are not always answered even for the most devout.

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  31. This is perfect, I wish I can use this as the disclaimer on my own site when clients request love spells 😀

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  34. I have a question to ask if I put a voodoo love spell on someone that already loves me and cares for me what would that do...

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  35. if you put a love spell on somebody that already loves you and cares for you and then decide to change your mind and take it off what will happen when they still love you or care for you or will the feelings go away because you remove the spell but they have already loved you and cared for you before you put the spell...

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  36. Excellent article, very useful great work thanks for sharing top 5 love spells

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  38. Its really creepy for a jealous little girl to try to cast a love spell when 2 people have been married with kids for 20 years.
    This caster will not stoo calling me
    How do i get the caster and all in volved
    Away from me & my kids?
    If my husband doesn't want to go
    No love spell will work. On the other hand can it be a spell to make me ill?
    To cleanse the path?
    ANYWAY u look at it its very disturbing and sick. I am fiking a pilice report in the Morning

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